Meaningful conversations

• What is an interesting question to ask a stranger that they will be comfortable answering? And by interesting question, I mean one that will elicit an interesting answer.

• What are examples of topics that create deep conversations?

What seemingly strange question will reveal a lot about a person?

What do you think about snowballing?

The way I see it, they either know what snowballing is and respond in kind, with a yes, no, or maybe, depending on the circumstances. In most cases, I would take this to mean they have some experience in the kink world, watch a lot of porn, or spend too much time at FetLife.

The second response is a “What’s snowballing?” And I’m okay with this one too. I’d explain the process of cum swapping and they’ll either be grossed out by the behavior or not. Like I already mentioned, snowballing isn’t really my thing, but it starts up a discussion and can show you if someone is open to different ideas outside of their comfort zone.

Lastly, if they don’t know what snowballing is, but answer anyway, assuming you’re talking about children and snowfalls and winter days, these are the people I want to weed out. Those who are going to make assumptions and just roll with the punches, always sticking with the status quo.

quora.com/What-seemingly-strange-question-will-reveal-a-lot-about-a-person/answer/Molly-Carter-2 

Gun to your head, you have to leave your house IMMEDIATELY, without technology or gadgets. Where do you go? What do you do?

This question gives insight about someone’s average day.

How they spend their free time. What are their hobbies, what they are into.  

Whether they are more introverted or extroverted.  

Whether they are satisfied with their “average day”. Whether they got anything interesting going in their life.

quora.com/What-seemingly-strange-question-will-reveal-a-lot-about-a-person/answer/Vjekoslav-Nemec

First round is on me, what do you guys want? 

You can learn something about a persons character when you put them in a position to take advantage of you.

Given the choice, would you rather drink a potion that would guarantee you: 
Love Wisdom Glory or Power?

No answer is the right answer, but it will reveal a lot about the person’s approach.

left off with Sean Kernan
https://www.quora.com/What-seemingly-strange-question-will-reveal-a-lot-about-a-person

Womanizer2

day game at university

simplepickup.com/forum/questions-advice/14519-daygame-openers-university-game-help-me.html

1. STOP OVERTHINKING RIGHT NOW. You cannot plan out situations and conversations in advance
2. Openers don't even matter all that much. What matters is how you deliver them the openers and how you express yourself throughout the interaction (from open to close).
3. Make it seem like fate. It's natural that way.
4.  I use a "tester" i.e "Excuse me" or "Hi" to see her reaction. If she's receptive I go direct, if not I go indirect. A "tester" lasts for 1-2 seconds so you have to be quick on your feet.

Linked from aerochats.blogspot.com/2018/11/womenizer.html.

Continued docs.google.com/document/d/1NmUbDdsV5NAKWP_kJ7PZx9U7c60MuaGaYqhOgwGo0eY/edit 

The Ugly Truth - TV Show Scene

And we're back with The Ugly Truth,
where we're gonna be talking about...

  
...what it is men and women
really want in relationships.

  
I've been looking through some books.
Smart Women, Foolish Choices.

  
Men Who Love Women
Who Hate Them.

  
And Women Hating Men Who
Loved Women Who Hate Loving Men.

  
Billions and billions wasted
on psychobabble bullshit.

  
Now, listen up, ladies, because
I'm only gonna say this once...

  
...and it is just three little words:

  
Men are simple.

  
We cannot be trained.

  
All this, "men are from Venus" crap
is a waste of your time and money.

  
You wanna be a lonely hag,
then that's fine...

  
...keep reading these stupid books.

  
But you want a relationship,
then here's how you get one:

  
It's called a Stairmaster.

  
Get on it, and get skinny...

  
...and get some trashy lingerie
while you're at it...

  
...because at the end of the day,
all we're interested in is looks.

  
And no one falls in love
with your personality at first sight.

  
We fall in love with your tits
and your ass...

  
...and we stick around because of
what you're willing to do with them.

Rejection Therapy & Confidence Challenges

"Sooooo...Hi. We don't talk much, do we? Kathy, was it? My name's Rod. I do awesome stunts all the time with my friends. You probably didn't know that. And you probably have lots of cool stuff about you that I don't know. Point is, if you don't sit down with someone and really talk and get to know them you'll never find those things out."


If someone knows you're doing this, their rejection doesn't count.

If you don't ask, you'll never know. You need to ask to get what you want!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flooding_(psychology)

Did

• Hitchhike (lots of rejection, but one success)
• Ask to sit in on a class that wasn't mine
• Ask four other students to a group chat (success)
• Ask another for their past tests for the course you're currently taking (success)
• Ask a professor to audit their course without meeting the prerequisites (success)
• Email someone well known (not necessarily a movie star), such as Peter Singer (success)
• Ask for a few cents from a stranger at a waterpark (success)
• Ask two girls for their numbers for your two friends (success)
• Request a LinkedIn connection with a professor (rejection)
• Ask several neighbors to mow their lawn; hand out flyers (all rejections)
• Offer to babysit for a neighbor them (pay implied)

To-do ~ Just go out and ask:

1. Ask someone who knows how to dance if they would teach you a cool move
2. Ask someone to dance, anywhere (even if you don't know--they'll soon find out)
3. Ask a farmer if they have rubber rings to castrate animals like goats (for recoil mechanism)
4. Ask a hardware store person about small rubber gaskets (plumbing section) ~ rings inside 
5. Ask a TA to see their past exams for the course or the next course
6. Ask a stranger to rate my look
7. Ask a friend to do your laundry
8. Ask for no tax on a purchase
9. Invite someone to your club meeting
10. In a park, ask a person if they'd allow you to sit next to them on a bench
11. Ask a "not close" friend for a head massage or shoulder massage
12. Ask a stranger to scratch my back in a place I can't reach
13. Offer to pay for someone's order
14. Ask your boss for a raise. If unemployed, ask someone for a job
15. Ask for directions from a stranger
16. Invite someone you've never socialized with out to dinner
17. Offer to help a stranger with their groceries
18. Ask someone if they believe in God
19. Ask someone their stance in politics
20. Try to sell something to someone in person
21. Try to buy something that is not for sale. Do it in person and make sure it's something you want.
22. Before purchasing something, ask for a discount.
23. Ask for a girl's number for yourself
24. Ask for something that's not on the menu
25. Strike up a conversation with a stranger on the bus
26. Ask someone out on a date
27. Ask a stranger for change for a dollar
28. Ask someone I have a crush on for a kiss
29. Asking a stranger if you can hug them
30. Ask for a random stranger to add you to his social network
31. Ask a cashier to let you have some small item, like gum, for free
32. Ask someone to do their job for 10 minutes (such as for fast food)
33. Radically change your look
• spike your hair for a week
34. Ask a stranger for their opinion on the economy
35. Borrow $100 from a stranger
36. Tour a warehouse (such as a grocery store)
37. Play soccer in someone's backyard
38. Send something to Santa Clause
39. Have someone sing the Happy Birthday Song to me
40. Learn sales from one of the top give car salesmen in the state
41. Take an unregistered exam
42. Give $5 to five random people
43. Borrow a dog from the humane society
44. Give a weather forecast on live TV
45. Make announcements on a plane flight
46. Ask strangers for compliments
47. Get donations for charity on the street
48. Slide down the pole at a fire station
49. Cook something like a piece of meat or omelet at a restaurant
50. Find a job in one day
51. Ask a girl out to dinner
52. Challenge a CEO to a staring contest
53. Race a random person
54. Partner up with a stranger to buy lottery
55. Sit in a police car's driver seat
56. Write an article for some magazine
57. Hug a Walmart greeter
58. Give away your favorite book. Ask the person to read it and tell you what they think.
59. Try to acquire a good or service by trade
60. Offer to give advice
61. Ask for a ride from a stranger, even if you don't need one
62. Knock on a neighbors door and ask for something
63. Put sunglasses on random people
64. Pump gas for strangers
65. Bike race at a store
66. Interview a panhandler
67. Make your own sandwich at a sub shop
68. Dance with waitress
69. Get someone their opinion on a recent news event
70. Smile at every person you walk past today
71. Write a piece for the freshman composition anthology
72. Plant a flower in someone's yard
73. Give away apples to strangers
74. Sleep at mattress store
75. Ask others to get rejected with me
76. Observe a high school class
77. Exchange secrets with strangers
78. Buy fresh fruit at Jamba Juice
79. Feed a lion or another exotic animal
80. Test drive an expensive car
81. Sit on Lincoln's Lap in DC
82. Recruit strangers to hold up signs near a lot of traffic
83. Take pictures with strangers
84. Learn a martial arts master's favorite move
85. Play pick-up line tournament
86. Offer a neighbor to babysit for them--for free
87. Borrow a book from a bookstore
88. Give a speech on the street
89. Ask for one month free from a service provider
90. Invite some people for your next hike, shopping 
91. Ask someone what it would take to partner, for your next venture, etc. 
92. Ask strangers & acquaintances for money.
93. For travel, ask to stay with people and also ask them to stay with you.
94. Ask someone to free associate from words with a word or a phrase

Tutoring summer job? weekend summer work? winter break work?

1. Ask to switch roles with another employee for a day
2. Do a YouTube video about your business
3. Request a testimonial from a client
4. Cold call a local prospect in person
5. Visit someone who declined your product/service. Ask why.
6. Invite a prospect/ allied business owner to your home.
7. Ask for a sponsorship from an allied business
8. Start a LinkedIn discussion group. Send out invitations.

ideas

1. ask for an unusual favor from someone
2. do something embarrassing
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Learned

• most people actually want to help you if you ask for it - especially if done politely
• put yourself out there

Other

• Talk to at least three random people a day
• Speak to a group of people with a mic, such as at an open mic event or karaoke 

CUT

How many of you believe in purpose in life? that you're here for a reason?

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http://bakadesuyo.com/2014/10/how-to-get-people-to-like-you

Mentalism Tricks

 

DIY Mentalism

1. Nodding yes during "to go" will make them think yes.
• Want to go eat now? 
• Want to go home?
2. Put a hand up for two choices. Put one hand up slightly higher for the choice you want.
• Do you want to go to a party or drink here?
• Do you want to play Wii or go to the store?
3. Lying game
• Imagination area vs recall zone
• Looking right vs left
• When they look to your left usually means they're contriving a response